Recovering still

OK so i was told after i had my baby i could not drive for 2 weeks and could not pick nothing up over 10lbs for 4 weeks. Well I can finally drive and it feels great not to have to ask people to take me place but here is my problem. I have my 14 month old who is at least 24 lbs if not more. So when i go out if he falls asleep i am in big trouble. So if you are on restriction on how much you can pick up make sure you don't go to far so that your older one does not fall asleep. Also I can not carry the baby in the car seat so anywhere i go i have to take stroller or carrier. The best thing to do until you are fully recovered and the doctor releases you from everything is take someone with you or make sure someone will be at the place you are going to help you. I have learned that i need to take it easy and ask for help from my husband or my family so that i will heal . if you are anything like me and think you can do it put your pride aside and accept the help. I keep over doing my self and keep starting to bleed heavy again. You need to look at the big picture and know that down the line you will be full force again and you don't want any problems then.