Healing after delivery

Well it is much harder this time then last two times to heal. The doctor told me not to pick nothing up over ten lbs. well my 14 month is 24 lbs. My husband has been a lot of help but it is hard now that he is back to work. If i did not have my mother not sure what i would do. I will tell you this DO NOT push your self. I tired to do to much and started to bleed heavy again. So here is some helpful advice. First accept the help that people are offering to you. Second take it easy and don't over do it. Relax and sit on your butt as much as possible. once you are better you will be running around crazy. Finally if you have to go some wheres always ask for help from friends and family, they will be willing to help because that means they get to hold the baby. lol.. please give me your thoughts and any ideas that might help someone else.